Somebody help me. I'm obsessed with The Calling.

And have you seen the singer? He's beautiful. Not hot. Beautiful. In fact, he reminds me a lot of Jonathan Rhys-Meyers, who must be the most gorgeous man alive. And dude, the voice. He has phone sex voice.

But I just found out that a month ago he turned 21.

Which scares me, really, because all the boys I seem to really, really like lately are barely legal. Methinks I'm becoming a dirty old lady.